Themes

The writing, organised by what it concerns.

Emotion

The nature, mechanics, and resolution of emotional states — anger, fear, reactivity, and what lies beneath them.

To be happy, we need to get something and give something

To be happy, we need to get something and give something. When they say, you should be happy on your own, you should not need someone else to make you happy, they ignore reality. If you are starving, it is something from outside, food, would mak...

Resistance Causes Stress

Resistance Causes Stress If you are driving and someone is pushing very close to your back, that is because you are irritating them, so they will irritate you. They want to go, they do NOT want to push you, they just want to go and you are holdi...

Emotional pain and suffering is very easy to eliminate original

Emotional pain and suffering is very easy to eliminate because it's essentially not real. You must test this information and prove it to yourself in under one minute. You must do the proving yourself with this very simple exercise otherwise if it...

Anger is power

Anger, Stress, Frustration Is True Power When you get really frustrated or stressed, you can feel it building up inside you like a nuclear bomb already exploded and you just need to let that energy out, that is actual power. It is born from anger...

How to Become a Cloud

Of all the concepts I have created to help people overcome feeling emotional pain stemming from manipulations by the people you love or have to deal with, this has been the most widely praised. If a plane flies into a mountain, everyone dies and ...

Red Flags, Do You See Them? Do You Wave Them? Part 2

Let’s look at one of the biggest turnoffs or red flags when we're dating. When we say something without meaning to be rude or nasty, if everything is going great but we say something that changes the mood because the other person gets upset with ...

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Behaviour

Automatic patterns and repetition — why people do what they don't intend to, and how habits shape a life.

Rule #1

Rule #1 Fix your personality first if you want a good relationship.

Resistance Causes Stress

Resistance Causes Stress If you are driving and someone is pushing very close to your back, that is because you are irritating them, so they will irritate you. They want to go, they do NOT want to push you, they just want to go and you are holdi...

What Do You Deserve

Everyone wants a wonderful partner, of course, who would pray to God to send them a selfish asshole or bitch. The problem is, are you actually worthy of the partner you want? I saw this article/poem about what she deserves in a man. https://www....

Success is Freedom vs Commitment

In our daily life, from the big goals and desires right down to the smaller things we want to have or achieve, failure is far more common than success. Why is that? The reason is, freedom to choose means that our weakest parts will win. The sayi...

Heal The Past, Move Freely Into the Future

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Commitment, The Key To Success & How To Experience Life Fully

Making a clear and definite commitment is the secret to making the Universe deliver your goals, whatever they may be. The decision to achieve your goal, making your plans, following all the instructions you have read and heard is NOT enough. A de...

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Character

What a person is made of — personality, identity, and what remains when each is examined honestly.

Conscious or Conscience

The difference between being conscious and having a conscience is what separates the few from the many who are just animals even if they appear to be humans.  Every animal is conscious, meaning, they are aware of their existence, they are interac...

A Shocking and Disturbing Reality About Low Self-Esteem

People will never change if they think they are alright. This is simply logical, why put in effort to fix what is not broken. We must see and realise that it is NOT alright to accept anything and everything. To accept mediocrity and negativity neg...

Pretending

Around the world, every child is taught by their parents, from their earliest years, to lie. They just call it pretending.

To Sin Is Not A Sin, In ANY religion

To Sin Is Not A Sin, In ANY religion. This article was researched and written by my brother, Michael Samuel, a brilliant scholar who studied many ancient teachings and religions. I took this from our conversations because I feel it would be benef...

Self Or No Self

Self Or No Self Buddha said we do not have a self that is continuous or lasting, but we do have a self. That is confusing. He said that the Sankharas continue, and that is what our self is. Sankharas, karma, thoughts, feelings, fears, desires, ...

Self-Esteem

Self-Esteem The core of self-esteem is understanding the difference between hardware and software. Is it a bug in the software or the machine. When you do something wrong or stupid, remember that it is not about you, but you using the informati...

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Attention

The quality and direction of inner sight — concentration, self-observation, and why the mind does not stay where it is put.

When Your Mind is Taken

When your mind is taken by anything from what you are doing, when it drifts off or your attention is distracted to something else, the first thing you need to understand in being able to master your mind is: what is your mind going to, and then, w...

Can You Or Can’t You?

They say you can’t, but of course you can. They say you can, but of course you can’t. They say you have no choice, but you always do. They say you have choice, but in reality you don’t. You can choose not to drink water, but you have no choice...

What IF

What If After releasing all desires and attachments and progressing to a state of emotional freedom, then the last thread holding us back is going to be the 'what if'. 'What if' I spoke to that person, 'what if' I did that investment, 'what if' ...

Meditation On What You Really Are

A Meditation On What You Really Are; A Means Of Developing True Connection Everything is in your mind, meaning, it's either an imagination or by using your mind, you can focus your thoughts to understand something. Everything begins in our mind w...

Condense the Mind

As Above, So Below. We can understand the mind which is spiritual in nature, by understanding the world in scientific nature. The mind is material, as water particles are in the air. Material, but so tiny we cannot see them. We learn to effect ...

Accepting Criticism, Eliminating Your Weakest Link

Being able to accept criticism is an excellent way to improve yourself. Normally, we will not notice our shortcomings. We have become so accustomed to some character traits which are not the best of features, that we do not realize what we do. Due...

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Psychology

How the mind works — its layers, the mechanics of thought, and the relationship between thinking and experience.

It's all good NO

If you believe that "it's all good, everything is good" and that whatever is good for a person is the right thing for them to do, I challenge you to consider this. No, it is NOT 'all good'. There is definitely a good and a bad choice, a...

What Too Long in Lockdown Can Do

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Why Am I So Broken; Why We Do Not Change Who We Are

This is a common question, and one that perplexes people throughout time. Sigmund Freud created the industry of psychotherapy to try and solve this riddle, but as we know, it is not working for everyone, or for many people at all in the process of...

The Best Reason Not To Cheat

We all have morals, but of course everyones morals are different. This is not an article about right and wrong, morals and values. It is about how your mind works and what you are doing to form your own subconscious emotional reactions, i.e: crazi...

When Will I Learn From My Mistakes

“I never learn from my mistakes.” A sad truth that this article will explain why we continually make the same mistakes again and again. We actually do learn from our mistakes, but we learn bad habits. In every event, we are accumulating knowledge...

Why We Justify And Dispute

Why We Justify And Dispute Some people often dispute anything that appears even slightly as a criticism or negative comment towards them. They justify and argue that it is not true, or they have excuses why this was an exception but, they never n...

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Suffering

What suffering is, what produces it, and how it ends.

In life, you cannot always get what you want in the way you want to get it

In life, you cannot always get what you want in the way you want to get it. Sometimes, to get what you want, you have to do what it takes to get it the way it needs to be done.

Many people find an emptiness in life

As example, the Kabbalah tree of life, all the angels, all the gods, how do I know that[']{dir="rtl"}s true? Where did this information come from? Was it people who experienced it and then wrote it down? Was it information that magicall...

Emotional pain and suffering is very easy to eliminate original

Emotional pain and suffering is very easy to eliminate because it's essentially not real. You must test this information and prove it to yourself in under one minute. You must do the proving yourself with this very simple exercise otherwise if it...

How To Deal With Racism

Racism and bigotry are very common in this world unfortunately and many people have to face this sad reality. Many immigrants feel that in their new country they've lost their confidence, they feel depressed and lost. In their home country, they ...

38. Anything Relative To The Past Is Poison And Must Be Avoided

Thinking of the past, regrets or things people did that upset you, will just keep upsetting you. Negative thoughts make the brain secrete chemicals which are destructive to the body, like acid burning away your heart or stomach.. Just remember th...

37. Ultimately Nothing Matters

Remember this in relation to anything that you find is earth shatteringly important, and you will free yourself from so much pain and frustration and have far less arguments.. Yes, there are some things which are very important, but this ethic is...

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Relationships

What makes relationships work or fail — attraction, partnership, and the inner states that determine outer dynamics.

Waiting For The Perfect Match

You want the perfect partner, you are waiting to find that perfect person and not willing to settle for less.  Or, you give in to accept flaws that you know are big problems because you are tired of being alone.  Both are big mistakes and lead to...

Make Every Kiss as if It’s Your First

Make every kiss as if it’s your first. Eat every meal as if it’s your last. Make love every time as if you are the only ones you both have ever known. These three things will make every meal more delicious and love grow always deeper.

Seven Fences That Bind And Separate Us

Written during the covid lockdown. We are going to come out of this lockdown with a high amount of poverty, unemployment, bankruptcies, financial, mental and emotional destruction. What matters now more than ever, is a loving and sincere relatio...

COVID-19 And Relationships

There are probably going to be a lot of divorces coming from this time of being forced to stay at home, 24/7 together, unless we understand that we are all sick, mentally and emotionally, due to the situation. We must all perceive this as a perio...

The Silent Treatment: Guaranteed Mutual Destruction

Communication is one of the most important aspects to a healthy relationship, however the ‘Silent Treatment’ is something that people do without considering the destructive results. Let’s examine what happens when one is ignored. Everyone wants ...

Red Flags, Do You See Them? Do You Wave Them? Part 2

Let’s look at one of the biggest turnoffs or red flags when we're dating. When we say something without meaning to be rude or nasty, if everything is going great but we say something that changes the mood because the other person gets upset with ...

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Communication

Speaking, listening, and what actually passes between people — the gap between words and meaning.

The Difference Between a Teacher and a Student

The difference between a teacher and student is not that the teacher has read books or taken courses and speaks eloquently about them, but because he himself has tripped and fallen along his path. The teacher has the scars just like everybody else...

The Silent Treatment: Guaranteed Mutual Destruction

Communication is one of the most important aspects to a healthy relationship, however the ‘Silent Treatment’ is something that people do without considering the destructive results. Let’s examine what happens when one is ignored. Everyone wants ...

Curiosity Killed The Spark

When your partner is curious about something and you are being evasive, that's going to set up suspicions and doubts. It implies you may be hiding something that you've done wrong. Or, you might just like to keep some secrets or, you don't want t...

I Need A Hug

There are two ways a human can communicate, with the mind and the intellect or the heart and feelings. The mind is very dangerous because it works with opinions and assumptions. The function of interpretation is very flawed because we think we kn...

26. Words Spoken To You In Anger Or Attack Are Empty, All Your Emotional Pain Is Self-inflicted

Attacking words are just a knife put on the table. You must pick it up and stab yourself for those words to hurt you otherwise they are as powerless as if spoken in an unknown language.. You give the words power and thus you have the choice to le...

5. Watch Your Thoughts, Words and Actions

Each moment is a new beginning for what comes next. Hence, be careful what you say and do each moment because that will determine what comes next and, in the long term future.. Live with this awareness of the repercussions of all your words and a...

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Ethics

Right conduct — honesty, responsibility, and integrity as practical rather than moral questions.

Supporting Exercises to Help Practice The Ethics

Inspiring words and thoughts are uplifting, but only for a short time until one forgets them. It is important to have an exercise specifically related to that good thought to focus on for a week or month, to imprint the value into one's personali...

What is Ethicalism

A New Way to Live based on Ethics. A life of simply trying each day to be a good human being based on Ethics, making you proud to be you. Goals of Ethicalism. To be master of one's own life.. To increase your motivation.. To be immune from ...

1. Accept Full Responsibility For Everything In Your Life

Nothing can happen to you in any way without you participating in some form, even if that means you chose to drive to the store and had a car accident; you were involved in some way.. Perhaps you were not paying enough attention or there was an i...

2. Harm No One Intentionally

This is really simple. Don’t steal, kill, lie, abuse, destroy or give even an intentional jaded remark or dirty look etc.. There is no absolution by praying to a deity or confessing your sins. That will not make the one you harmed any better off,...

3. Respect Everyone, Never Disregard Another Human Being

Respect is shown in many ways. It basically boils down to making someone else wait or suffer in some way just so you can have your way.. Respect other people's time. Be punctual, on time or early for appointments. Do what you have promised to do ...

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Work & Finances

The inner life of effort — why we work, business principles grounded in character, and money as a practical subject.

How to Determine Your Target Amount

List every item that you will spend money on per year, or month. Some things are monthly expenses like rent or mortgage or food, other things are not every month, like flights, hotels, etc. You must get an annual cost of living, so determine each...

Business Mission Statement

Business ethics of how a company should be run.. To do the best we can for the simple and pure sake of doing the best we can rather than just for profit. We set the standard of how business should be run, it's reason for being: To serve the cli...

Success is Freedom vs Commitment

In our daily life, from the big goals and desires right down to the smaller things we want to have or achieve, failure is far more common than success. Why is that? The reason is, freedom to choose means that our weakest parts will win. The sayi...

Never Take The Advice Of Someone Who Will Profit From Your Loss

When you go to someone for advice, be that a mentor, coach, lawyer or anyone at all, always consider the most important question before you agree to enlist them as your adviser. Why are they in their profession? You must be much more concerned w...

Commitment, The Key To Success & How To Experience Life Fully

Making a clear and definite commitment is the secret to making the Universe deliver your goals, whatever they may be. The decision to achieve your goal, making your plans, following all the instructions you have read and heard is NOT enough. A de...

Were Buddha And Other Spiritual People Really Without Wealth

For people who think that being spiritual means you should not care about money or material things, there is something to bear in mind if you are using the justification that Buddha and spiritual people had nothing. In fact, they were effectively ...

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Spiritual Inquiry

Contemplative traditions and their practical meaning — Zen, Sufi, Gnostic, and Fourth Way materials examined directly.

I Do Not Belong Here

A Personal Invitation from David Samuel. There comes a time in many people's lives when they begin asking questions such as: What's the point of life? Why do I feel as though I don't truly belong here? Am I more than what I appear to be? We rea...

A Method for Approaching the Infinite

It may not be possible to directly “find” God—or whatever you consider the original source of all things—because something truly infinite is beyond the capacity of the human mind to fully comprehend or experience. Short of a miracle, our intellect...

Short Version of Why We Are Here as Humans on Earth

From that came Yin and Yang or male and female or whatever you want to call the two opposing forces of positive and negative energy, not as in good and bad, but just opposing forces like on a magnet. Why and how these came to be, we will never kno...

The Common Thread

In over 3 decades that I have worked with thousands of people in every continent - even on a ship in Antarctica - and culture, I can say that no matter what the issues a person has, be that financial, relationship, personal, spiritual, there is on...

The Path of Annihilation – Water to Air

We can learn about ourselves by studying nature and science Water on the pavement does not get absorbed but when the sun shines on it, that water evaporates and then joins back to the air. The air has no country, land or ocean as its home, it is...

God Imprisoned in a Human Body

We are God imprisoned in a human body/mind/ego/personality We are made to forget and ignore the reality of what we are, which is God, totally impersonal without ego or concern, it simply is energy that makes things happen, as electricity itself d...

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Human Nature

What drives people — social conditioning, collective behaviour, and observations on the human condition at large.

A Shocking and Disturbing Reality About Low Self-Esteem

People will never change if they think they are alright. This is simply logical, why put in effort to fix what is not broken. We must see and realise that it is NOT alright to accept anything and everything. To accept mediocrity and negativity neg...

My Job Is

What I Do. My work is to help people find peace, clarity, and freedom from unnecessary suffering. I do not do this through belief, advice, or motivation. I do it by showing you the cause of your suffering — so you can see it for yourself and re...

The Human Farm

The human is just a farmed animal, like a cocoon waiting for the caterpillar to transform, or rather the silkworm. The silkworm makes a cocoon for it to turn into a moth but the cocoon is harvested before it matures to take the silk thread for us...

Why do good people always get hurt

Why do good people always get hurt. The first question is, are the 'good' people sincerely good? Yes they do good things, but is it sincerely to be good and do good things for the sake of doing good? The person who donates a large amount of mon...

Where Humanity Is Headed, A Great Movie Plot

Where Humanity Is Headed, A Great Movie Plot, But It Is Coming With the new robot called 'Iron' from Xpeng, google 'Video of Xpeng Iron' it's so feminine, beautiful, sexy, if it were fitted with a fully functioning vagina that would satisfy a man...

To be happy, we need to get something and give something

To be happy, we need to get something and give something. When they say, you should be happy on your own, you should not need someone else to make you happy, they ignore reality. If you are starving, it is something from outside, food, would mak...

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