Rule #1
Rule #1 Fix your personality first if you want a good relationship.
Behaviour
Automatic patterns and repetition — why people do what they don't intend to, and how habits shape a life.
Behaviour
Resistance Causes Stress
Resistance Causes Stress If you are driving and someone is pushing very close to your back, that is because you are irritating them, so they will irritate you. They want to go, they do NOT want to push you, they just want to go and you are holdi...
What Do You Deserve
Everyone wants a wonderful partner, of course, who would pray to God to send them a selfish asshole or bitch. The problem is, are you actually worthy of the partner you want? I saw this article/poem about what she deserves in a man. https://www....
Success is Freedom vs Commitment
In our daily life, from the big goals and desires right down to the smaller things we want to have or achieve, failure is far more common than success. Why is that? The reason is, freedom to choose means that our weakest parts will win. The sayi...
Heal The Past, Move Freely Into the Future
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Commitment, The Key To Success & How To Experience Life Fully
Making a clear and definite commitment is the secret to making the Universe deliver your goals, whatever they may be. The decision to achieve your goal, making your plans, following all the instructions you have read and heard is NOT enough. A de...
How to be Committed and Attached While Detached and Free at the Same Time
Love touches and if felt in what we call our soul. There is nothing religious or mystical about it, it is a real thing. You can call it your heart, but it is more than that. Real love enchants and enlivens every cell in our body, give energy, joy ...
Your Habits Are Your Personality Part 1
This article is to explore and test the concept of altering the personality through changes of habitual patterns for the purpose of attaining emotional freedom from fears and inhibitions, resulting in healthy self-esteem. This is the first articl...
September 8, 2017
September 8, 2017. Interpersonal Communication and Customer Relations at Trump International Hotel and Tower, Panama City. David will be presenting a one hour event in dealing with difficult situations in the workplace at the Trump Hotel in Panam...
21. Three Things To Do Little
Speak little. Be precise and concise, using words as a limited resource.. Eat little. Do not let food be your god; everything in moderation.. Sleep little. Over sleeping can make you more tired and that extra half hour a day sleeping adds up to ...
20. Eat and Live Healthy
Exercise and eat well; health is greater than wealth; make time to rest your mind, body and soul; stress and pent up frustration will lead to ill health, and that is usually for something which in the long term is irrelevant.. Living healthy requ...
19. Create Something Of Beauty Every Day
Art, music, a beautiful garden or a clean, well presented house or office, are all things that other people see, and if done beautifully, will make them feel good just to look at it.. Likewise, a smile is more beautiful than a frown. Your sad or ...
10. Do What Is In Front Of You
If something will not be a detriment to your life, either at the moment or in the long term future, just do it immediately.. Don't let your ego prevent you from being present and simply a nice person, even if that means getting someone way below ...
6. Value Time, Yours and Other People’s
Time is the most precious of all commodities. Of all things in the universe, only time is the one thing that no matter where we look, once lost, can never be found. Ironically, time is the one thing we squander the easiest.. Exercises. Keep Your...
How To Master Being Tolerant In Three Steps
First Do not ask a six year old to stop behaving like a six year old. Second Do not equate age with a proportionate amount of maturity and wisdom. Third Accept that common sense is the most rare thing to find in a human being.
How People are Stressed or Things get To Big and Overwhelming
Stress is a learnt weakness, it is not natural. It is natural to be able to handle everything calmly. How can we overcome this habitual stressful reaction? We must put in effort to feel stress. It is fully self-created and self-maintained. St...
How To Correct Injustice; Positive And Effective Change
This article is about the common frustration of facing someone who is doing something you consider very wrong, either to you or in general. When faced with a situation in which someone is cheating or hurting you, and you feel a tremendous injusti...
Stepping Towards The Goal
Choose your goal, whatever you want, then think about what do you need to have or be or change in order to get what you want. What is the step before or requirement to getting your goal, and the step before that, etc. Personally, I want to be en...
Obstacle To Motivation
Why people cannot get motivated or why people cannot find anything to do is a common question. I think one reason for some people is because they actually do not want to have anything they love and enjoy to do that they can become attached to. Th...
Devotion and Commitment End Suffering
Devotion and commitment are the keys to happiness because that equates to submission. You submit to what you are committed and devoted to. Submission is the opposite of resistance. Submission is the opposite of dissatisfaction. As Buddha said; ...
Idle Hands Are The Devils Workshop
I may not be a follower of any religion, but I believe there is wisdom in many teachings, if we use our mind to find it. In this article, we will explore a real life example of how this saying leads to happiness or depression. The ‘devil’ is depr...
How To Give 100% At Everything You Do
If we always did the best we could do, we would certainly excel and be recognized for excellent service and attitude, but we do not. There is always something that holds us back from giving fully and that can be a variety of reasons. The most pow...
How Can We Learn To Trust And Let Go?
I think the problem is the ego wanting to be individual. It goes back to when we are children, the ‘terrible two’s’ when a child starts to say no to everything. That is a point in our life that we develop the idea that we are separate individuals ...
Why We Resist Change
Many people do not like change. They just don’t like it and are not sure why or cannot even begin to come up with a reason, they just don’t like change, it upsets them. In the hopes of eliminating yet one more frequently repeated negative state ...
Why People Are Going Postal
Have you ever been, or talked to someone who is clearly upset and when asked; “What’s wrong?” insists that nothing is wrong? The more you probe, the more they resist. There is clearly something wrong but they will not open up. You write it off as...
Apple Quarterly Report, Why Do Smart People Behave So Strange?
Apple share price dropped 10 percent today after its revenues came up short of analyst estimates and sales of its macs and iPhones were not what Wall street expected. Still, Apple sold 47.8 million iPhones, a record, and 22.9 million iPads. The co...
Why Do I Procrastinate
Many people are hindered by procrastination, and have no idea why they do it. There doesn’t seem to be any logic or reason as to the cause of putting things off, but it is almost impossible to get the simplest task done. My theory is that the pro...
Why Are Even The Nicest People So Mean
If I was sent here from another planet to study humans, I would be very confused by something that seems to be very common. Even the nicest people who are close friends or family, and really care, will add a negative twist to their show of gratit...
Who Is The Fool In Politics
The problem with a democratic system in which the government officials are elected by majority vote is that it absolutely precludes honesty and sincerity on the part of the person running for election. This is especially true during the campaign ...
Everything Works In A Pattern
Everything in the universe works in some pattern. Everything has a logic and pattern of its own. The trick is to find the pattern of what you are studying. This could be so different than anything you can logically perceive, which makes it very d...
Why Do People Seek Pain
Self-mutilation, or other means of self-inflicted pain, physically, mentally or emotionally, are common to everyone. Everyone finds some way to inflict one form of pain or another on themselves, and we all wonder why. One young person told me tha...
Are You The Preserver Of Life Or The Condemner Of Death
People who fight for preservation of a species, often neglect what preservation of life requires, which is in many cases, the end of another life. Humans are the only creature who can choose an alternate food source. Lions cannot become vegetaria...
Deadlines Are Natural, Resistance Is Futile
Deadlines are a natural part of the universe. There is no need to get stressed and resist them. In the Kybalion, one of the Hermetic laws is; As above, so below. This is to say that within the larger, there is a smaller version of the larger. The...
An Exercise To Attain Objective Detachment
This is an excellent exercise to attain an objective detachment to events and retain a freedom from being negatively emotionally effected. The exercise is; ***Do not say anything that will not serve a useful purpose.*** Most often, when someone...
You Are A Result Of Circumstances
The ego is formed and becomes the seat of power to manipulate your life because it itself, the ego, is the consequence of circumstance and circumstance is the power that sits in the seat. The events of your life from moment to moment are the circ...
All Things Have A Cost
The fact is that you pay for everything, every breath has a cost. When you receive something, anything, you pay for it in some way. If you don’t pay now, you will pay later, or you may have paid in advance. Self development cannot happen if you de...
Did You Choose To Believe It?
The question of having a choice is an interesting one about personal power, it is one we choose to believe. If you truly had a choice in your life and actions, would you do the many things you do that are detrimental to your self or others? How ma...
How To Know When To Let Go, And How
How do you know when to let go, in business or personal situations in life. This is a very difficult question, but one that is vital to living a life that continuously moves forward. Afterall this planet is moving through space at 1,350,000 miles ...
Call Me A Male Chauvinist
I was reading an article about Kobe, Japan and came across a very telling report which gives an incite in to the dangerous territory we are going as a species. I do not think this attitude is limited to Kobe or Japan, but rather is global. The poi...
Do Our Thoughts Create Events Or, Do Events Create Our Thoughts
This is a question of action and reaction. Do we create events or do the events form our way of thinking, and then once formed, do we influence events. Certainly one thing is clear, if there are negative events, our thoughts will normally become n...
Pressure Causes Stress, Resistance Causes Pressure
This article will explain the cause of stress related to the pressures of life and how to eliminate the negative effects. Not only will that be explained, but you will also find how to use the pressure in a positive way. If you push on something,...
How To Make Life Roll Smoothly In Perfect Control
For a bike wheel to roll smoothly, all the spokes must be strong and well connected. They connect to the hub. The hub is the central point of the wheel and connects to the axel. As I discovered by my own experience, when one spoke out of the 20 on...
Charity Foundations, Good Or Bad?
I am in Cambodia now, the town of Siem Reap and am amazed at how many charity foundations there are in this town, three hundred NGO's (non-governmental associations), one everywhere you look. I have visited with several projects so far and learnt ...
How To Stop Being Hurt By Other People
There is a saying, look to yourself for the cause and solution to all your problems. This is a very interesting saying because it has many meanings. The first is the obvious, to see what you have done wrong to cause the problem. This is easy to a...
Having Enough Time
If you are waiting to have enough time to do the things you want to do, to devote yourself to that project or practice that you know would be beneficial, you will never find the time. Time has to be stolen from one thing or another, you are alway...
We Are Nothing More Than A Sum Of Habits
We learn the habits of our manners, tastes in food, character, values, morals, etc. as we grow up. We go to sleep at a certain time, eat a meal at a certain time, the type of food considered appropriate for breakfast, lunch or dinner. To be humb...
Why Goals Come Close, Then Pass You By
It is a common phenomena that people working with the law of attraction, the secret and positive thoughts towards a goal will receive many opportunities, but often, they never materialize. This leads to confusion and eventually dropping of the fai...
The Tortoise and the Hare
This story is not for children, it is for the adult the child will become. As a children's story, since children are so impressionable, the best lessons of being a quality person are given to us at that young age. This will set the child's mind ...
You Are 100% Responsible For Every Thing That Happened to You
Misery or good things, almost every thing that happens to you, other than some exceptions, has happened due to your own decision at one point in time. You made a decision and that sent a chain of events in progress until what you are currently de...
Why Do People Not Follow Through On Their Goals And Plans And How To Correct This Problem
If you are on your own, it is very hard to get yourself motivated and continue forward. But if you have someone to work with, you have much more power. Two people together can do the work of four people each on their own. But more importantly, whe...
The Pattern Organ
Law of Attraction - Mind Series This article is about an organ which you have never heard of or been aware exists. It is the ‘pattern organ’ and is located in your mind. Since science has not yet located the ‘mind’ we have no idea how big it is...
Commitment, The Key To Success And How To Experience Life Fully
Law of Attraction - Achieve Goals series Making a clear and definite commitment is the secret key to making the Universe deliver your goal mentioned in the book Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill and the Movie not long ago released called The S...
Obligations
Law of Attraction - How to make money in business series When you go to the restaurant, you go with an empty stomach. They give you food, you give them money. There is the emptiness, which is filled, and then what is given gets something in ret...
Using the Law Of Rhythm, Habits and Melody for Spiritual Growth and Mental Focus.
Law of Attraction - Spiritual Growth Series The Law of Rhythm is basically indicating an expression of habits. A habit is something you do consistently, therefore it has a rhythmic movement to it. The Law of Rhythm shows you your habits and tho...
How to be Committed and Attached While Detached and Free at the Same Time
If the soul, your essence, is the smallest little dot of your being and is covered by layers of ego personality and there are layers for each experience of your life, how can you ever find it? Each layer is another illusion. Illusions are how we...
Corporate Change Human Adaptability and Habit
The lowest common denominator is the key to success or failure. Ultimately, everything to do with a business, its operations, its products, sales, expenses, etc, boils down to being effected by the lowest common denominator, the individual human ...
Self-Directed Brainwashing
Brainwashing is a term that has a negative connotation, yet it is the only method by which we can improve our lives and achieve any goal we desire. The concept of brainwashing is to wash out the brain, meaning thoughts, beliefs, personality, and ...
COMMITMENT, THE SECRET OF SUCCESS - PART 1
Making a clear and definite commitment is the secret key to making the Universe deliver your goal mentioned in the book Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill and the Movie not long ago released called The Secret. The Secret movie is very popular...